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| - | '''Sexual abstinence''' is the practice of voluntarily refraining from some or all aspects of [[sexual activity]]. Common reasons to deliberately abstain from the physical expression of sexual desire include religious or philosophical reasons (e.g. [[chastity]]), material reasons (to prevent [[conception]] (undesired pregnancy) or [[Sexually Transmitted Disease|STD]] transmission), psycho-sociological reasons (e.g. [[clinical depression]], [[social anxiety disorder]]), negative past experiences, or to conform to legal injunctions. | ||
| - | Sexual abstinence has been debated since antiquity, both in terms of same-sex and opposite-sex relationships. ''See [[Platonic love]]'' | + | '''Spiritual marriage''' comes from the idea of "[[love]] without [[sexual intercourse|sex]]." It is a practice in which a man and a woman live intimately without having any sexual relationship. It has been known throughout all cultures as a bond of a man and a woman with its only reason being the spiritual connection between the two and nothing more. |
| - | ===Christianity=== | + | |
| - | In Christianity, sexual intercourse is meant to take place within the context of marriage; therefore, abstinence is expected of unmarried people. But for married couples, the apostle [[Paul of Tarsus|Paul]] wrote that they should not deprive each other, except for a short time for devotion to [[prayer]]. | + | ==Spiritual marriage in Catholicism== |
| - | == See also == | + | |
| - | * [[Asexuality]] | + | Spiritual marriage is a concept that has a long history in [[Catholicism]], and is also known as a "Josephite marriage" after the marriage between [[Saint Joseph]] and the [[Virgin Mary]]. A feature of Catholic spiritual marriage, or Josephite marriage, is that the agreement to abstain from sex should be a free mutual decision, rather than resulting from impotence or the views of one party. |
| - | * [[Abstinence, be faithful, use a condom]] | + | |
| - | * [[Abstinence-only sex education]] | + | In senses beyond spiritual marriage, [[chastity]] is a key concept of Church doctrine that demands [[celibacy]] of priests, monks, nuns and certain other officials in the Church. The doctrine established a "spiritual marriage" of church officials to their church; in order to better serve God, one had to disavow the demands and temptations of traditional marriage. This rule was enforced by [[Henry II, Holy Roman Emperor]], whose marriage to [[Cunigunde of Luxemburg]] was also a very famous spiritual marriage. |
| - | * [[Antisexualism]] | + | |
| - | * [[Celibacy]] | + | The ultimate emulation of this piety by the laypersons of the church was for a married couple to practice a "spiritual marriage" as well. This practice is thought to be most common in medieval times. At times in Catholic history, a spiritual marriage was considered to be a more devout expression of love than a traditional [[marriage]]. |
| - | * [[Chastity belt]] | + | |
| - | * [[Chastity ring]] | + | Examples of spiritual marriage in history include [[Edward the Confessor]], who married but refused to [[consummate]] his marriage for religious reasons, resulting in the lack of clear heir. Some historians believe that this story was actually made up after the fact by Edward's followers to explain the infertility of his marriage. Such was the case with the wife of [[Boleslaus V of Poland]]. |
| - | * ''[[Harmful to Minors]]'', a book by [[Judith Levine]] which deals with [[sexual morality]] in the United States, and also discusses the issue of abstinence education | + | |
| - | * [[Making sense of abstinence]] | + | The Venerable [[Louis and Ziele Martin]] professed to enter a spiritual marriage, but consummated a year later when directed by their confessor to do so. [http://carmelnet.org/sword/v60/Spirituality/sp-martins/sp-martins.htm 1]. Of their nine children the five who survived to adulthood all became nuns, including Saint [[Thérèse de Lisieux]]. |
| - | * [[Masturbation]] | + | |
| - | * [[Purity Ball]] | + | Occasionally, spiritual marriages may also be entered later in life, with the renunciation of sexual relations after raising a family to fully dedicate oneself to God. In October 2001 John Paul II beatified a married couple, Luigi and Maria Beltrame Quattrocchi, who bore four children, but later in life lived separately and committed to a Josephite marriage. |
| - | * [[Religious aspects of marriage]] | + | |
| - | * [[Refusal skills]] | + | Spiritual marriage has sometimes assumed a questionable form, in which a priest or monk would take a nun or laywoman as a wife, claim to remain celibate, and claim that they slept in the same bed but did not engage in sexual relations as a sign of their own willpower. Most, however, doubted that they were in fact as strong in [[chastity]] as they claimed, and such claims were judged heretical. {{Fact|date=February 2007}} |
| - | * [[Spiritual marriage]] | + | |
| - | * [[Virginity pledge]] | + | == References == |
| + | Elliot, D. : ''Spiritual Marriage: Sexual Abstinence in Medieval Wedlock''. Princeton University Press. | ||
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| + | ==See also== | ||
| + | *[[Mystical marriage]] | ||
| + | *[[Bride of Christ]] | ||
| + | *[[Peijainen]] | ||
| + | *[[Yogic marriage]] | ||
| + | *[[Asexuality]] | ||
| + | *[[Romantic friendship]] | ||
| + | *[[Sexual abstinence]] | ||
| + | *[[Platonic love]] | ||
| + | *[[Spiritual friendship]] | ||
| + | *[[Sexless marriage]] | ||
| + | *[[Celibate marriage]] | ||
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Spiritual marriage comes from the idea of "love without sex." It is a practice in which a man and a woman live intimately without having any sexual relationship. It has been known throughout all cultures as a bond of a man and a woman with its only reason being the spiritual connection between the two and nothing more.
Spiritual marriage in Catholicism
Spiritual marriage is a concept that has a long history in Catholicism, and is also known as a "Josephite marriage" after the marriage between Saint Joseph and the Virgin Mary. A feature of Catholic spiritual marriage, or Josephite marriage, is that the agreement to abstain from sex should be a free mutual decision, rather than resulting from impotence or the views of one party.
In senses beyond spiritual marriage, chastity is a key concept of Church doctrine that demands celibacy of priests, monks, nuns and certain other officials in the Church. The doctrine established a "spiritual marriage" of church officials to their church; in order to better serve God, one had to disavow the demands and temptations of traditional marriage. This rule was enforced by Henry II, Holy Roman Emperor, whose marriage to Cunigunde of Luxemburg was also a very famous spiritual marriage.
The ultimate emulation of this piety by the laypersons of the church was for a married couple to practice a "spiritual marriage" as well. This practice is thought to be most common in medieval times. At times in Catholic history, a spiritual marriage was considered to be a more devout expression of love than a traditional marriage.
Examples of spiritual marriage in history include Edward the Confessor, who married but refused to consummate his marriage for religious reasons, resulting in the lack of clear heir. Some historians believe that this story was actually made up after the fact by Edward's followers to explain the infertility of his marriage. Such was the case with the wife of Boleslaus V of Poland.
The Venerable Louis and Ziele Martin professed to enter a spiritual marriage, but consummated a year later when directed by their confessor to do so. 1. Of their nine children the five who survived to adulthood all became nuns, including Saint Thérèse de Lisieux.
Occasionally, spiritual marriages may also be entered later in life, with the renunciation of sexual relations after raising a family to fully dedicate oneself to God. In October 2001 John Paul II beatified a married couple, Luigi and Maria Beltrame Quattrocchi, who bore four children, but later in life lived separately and committed to a Josephite marriage.
Spiritual marriage has sometimes assumed a questionable form, in which a priest or monk would take a nun or laywoman as a wife, claim to remain celibate, and claim that they slept in the same bed but did not engage in sexual relations as a sign of their own willpower. Most, however, doubted that they were in fact as strong in chastity as they claimed, and such claims were judged heretical. Template:Fact
References
Elliot, D. : Spiritual Marriage: Sexual Abstinence in Medieval Wedlock. Princeton University Press.
See also
- Mystical marriage
- Bride of Christ
- Peijainen
- Yogic marriage
- Asexuality
- Romantic friendship
- Sexual abstinence
- Platonic love
- Spiritual friendship
- Sexless marriage
- Celibate marriage
